Home From My Wild Evening

Kage Baker didn’t trust many people. Oh, she was polite to all the hundreds of people one must be, when one moves about out in the world – she had a public persona with exquisite manners, and was always a perfect lady. In fact, you had to be an intimate friend to see her in her relaxed, at-home mode: when she could be hilariously vulgar, ferociously witty, and disarmingly silly.

Some of you, Dear Readers, knew that side of Kage. Friends who worked Faire or conventions with her; people she grew to trust via safe emails; people who could stay up late drinking rum, until she came out of her shell like a grinning hermit crab and began to assign cave-person names to everyone around the campfire … she was Bunga of the Jungle. She told hysterical and outrageous stories about the young men who went out hunting, and the unlikely things they found.

But one only got to see that face of her if you were a very close friend. One of those is Athene (of whom I have spoken before), the grey-eyed goddess to whom Garden of Iden is dedicated. Athene was not only instrumental in getting Kage’s work in sufficiently good shape to catch an agent and a publisher – she is one of our oldest friends, a boon companion since we were all on the far fringes of adolescence and trying out our adult wings at Renaissance Faires. She was the third voice in Dame Fortune’s Privates; she knew all the sacred Cow Songs and could translate Waterman songs from Yorkshire into English.

Athene has seen me at my worst, and driven me home from Marin County in a truck with a dying alternator. She doesn’t suffer fools or even minute amounts of bullshit. She’s someone I can talk to (easily and even incoherently), about Kage and my own health disasters – Athene has seen both Kage and I, in our times, through any number of weird diseases and accidents. I don’t think she’d be too surprised if I really did turn up with an alien in my chest. She drove Kage to the hospital for her tonsillectomy, when I got benched with gall stones. She brought us ice cream in various recoveries. She has been lecturing me sternly about behaving myself during my post-surgical travails – and I will behave, because Athene will come around and whack me upside the head if I don’t.

And since I moved back to Los Angeles, she has been one the people most successful in persuading me to come out of the house. She and Kimberly have coaxed and bullied me into actually going out of doors and doing something –   small, easy, domestic things, like buying tomatoes. But without that prodding, I would have just encysted, like a drought-afflicted virus.

She’s a little rougher on me than she would have been on Kage – she knew Kage well, and knew the inner fragility that underlay all her brilliance and wit. I’m tougher. And often stupider. And a million times more accident prone, so I really need the reminders not to be an idiot.

Athene took me out to dinner tonight, at what has become our favourite haunt in Glendale. We laughed loudly, we gossiped, we recommended movies and television shows to one another. I cried, but I always do since Kage died; but I’m getting better, and Athene doesn’t mind when I tear up over the demitasse cups.

Other than that dinner date, I have mostly been asleep today. Hence the late posting. Tomorrow, though, I shall share with you some more extinct animals that have turned up where no one expected them. And the real reason the Russian craft Phobos-Grunt has failed. And the potential of manganese catalase.

Good night, all.

About Kate

I am Kage Baker's sister. Kage was/is a well-known science fiction writer, who died on January 31, 2010. She told me to keep her work going - I'm doing that. This blog will document the process.
This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink.

3 Responses to Home From My Wild Evening

  1. Tom says:

    It is good to have friends.
    It is bad to have a dying alternator. I have the towing bill to prove it.
    I encountered Kage’s suspicion the first time we met. Took me aback a bit, but then I do frighten small animals and children sometimes. You bustled up with plans for departure to Pismo, then, and I let things go, with a stack of autographed books ‘neath my arm.
    Try ‘Fred 62’ sometime (1850 N Vermont Ave,, Los Angeles, CA 90027-4215, (323) 667-0062). It’s not too far from where you’re living, and encrusted with its own mythos about Fred’s cooking tours of exotic lands. The deep-fried mac-and-cheese balls might be the death of you, but you’ll die smiling.


    • Kate says:

      Oh, Tom – I am so sorry! I am an inveterate bustler. I hope you feel better now – you became on of the people she always spoke to, and she looked forward eagerly to your emails. You were NOT one of the people for whom I built a custom filter to consign their mail to the outer darkness …

      Kathleen kbco.wordpress.com


  2. Tom says:

    P’shaw and fazz-tazz, dear lady – I felt fine then, understood what I saw, saw she needed you at that moment. And you’ve told us, eloquently, how off-putting could be a crowd of strangers for Kage.
    The funny thing is that, going back to my car, I helped Lois McMaster Bujold catch the right bus for her hotel. Masters of time and space may yet need help with local travel.
    Remember to pack your snorkel and fins for Club Cedars – all those fish-filled pools sound like fun!


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.